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Three of Swords Tarot Card
Meanings and Keywords:

Upright:

Cutting to the heart of a situation.

Heartbreak.

Sorrow.

Separation.

Emotional pain.

Being let down or letting someone down (including yourself).

Afraid of getting hurt. 

Finding it hard to trust.

Being betrayed by someone in a trusted position.

Reversed:

Deep emotional pain.

Abuse.

Neglect.

Symbolism in Three of Swords tarot card

The three swords pointing downwards symbolise endings. The swords cross each other as they pierce a heart symbolising emotional pain. The sky is filled with rainy clouds symbolising grief.

Three of Swords tarot card and Astrology

Saturn (World) in Libra (Justice)

Three of swords tarot card meanings upright

Three of swords in a general reading

Three of Swords tarot card denotes heartbreak. sorrow, pain and separation. Sometimes the separation is only temporary, other times it is final. The other cards in the spread will tell you in what situation this pain is manifesting itself and how strongly it is affecting you. Three of swords tarot card will also show the old pain that has been covered up, and that desperately needs releasing. If surrounded by a lot of court cards your heart is hurting due to the people in your life. Three of Swords combined with Five of Swords can mean that someone is deliberately trying to hurt you. Don’t let them. Three of swords often shows up to show you how to get to the heart of a situation. Three of swords sometimes shows up for people with a love of music, especially string music.

Tips when Three of Swords shows up in a reading: Remind the seeker of their passions and their dreams. Get them motivated about life again. Steer them away from wanting to escape their problems. They need to get themselves on track first.

Three of swords in a love reading

In a love reading, Three of swords tarot card denotes a painful time where the Seeker is dealing with rejection and separation. Three of swords can also mean the couple is not communicating properly. There are misunderstandings, and they are shutting each other out.

Three of swords in a career reading

In a career reading, Three of swords tarot card signifies work that puts the Seeker under stress. It can also denote a cardiologist, surgeon and grief counsellor.

Learn what Three of swords tarot card means in the Grand Tableau.

Personality types in Three of swords tarot card

Three of swords tarot card indicates someone who is easily offended and hurt due to past abandonment and loss. They are terrified of being rejected and are controlling and jealous people. Three of swords people don’t know what it feels like to be secure and often have twisted beliefs about love. As a result, they never really give their heart to anyone and they can be very difficult people to love. Their partners try to fix them and counsel them, but it often ends with more heartache. They are often stuck in the past and are reliving an old trauma. They seek relationships to feel whole, but as their relationship develops they suffer anxiety and fear of loss. As a consequence, they are often in and out of relationships, and they never seem to settle down.

three of swords tarot card meanings

Sorrow

Three of swords tarot card meanings reversed

Three of Swords tarot card meanings reversed indicate there is blocked grief stored in the person’s heart. The seeker might be afraid of grieving and is internalising. This card often shows up when people don’t tell others how they are really feeling. They have problems putting up the correct boundaries and become a punching bag for other people’s aggression and frustrations. They keep taking it believing they have no other choice. They don’t honour their own feelings. This card also shows up when people reject others in fear of being rejected themselves.

Personality types in Three of swords reversed

Three of swords reversed indicates someone who is calm on the surface, but is hiding something disturbing underneath. They often seem incredibly confident and hide behind a fake smile. There is often deep-seated issues with abuse, neglect, and loss that have never been processed. The person has never given themselves an opportunity to heal. They know how to act as if nothing is wrong. It seems like nothing upsets or worries them, but only because they have learnt to hide their feelings. Somewhere along the way these people have suffered greatly and they have learnt to control their outward responses. What you see is not what you get.

Three Of Swords Tarot Card Combinations

Some important tarot card combinations including Three of swords:

Three of swords + The Fool: Unable to commit. 

Three of swords + The Magician: Breakdown in communication. 

Three of swords + The Hierophant: Unable to trust people in trusted positions. 

Three of swords + The Lovers: Making a bad decision. 

Three of swords + The Chariot: Giving up before you give it a go. 

Three of swords + Strength: Impatience. Fear of standing out due to peer pressure. 

Three of swords + The Hermit: Loneliness. 

Three of swords + The Hanged Man: Unable to communicate your point of view.

Three of swords +The Star: Being led astray. 

Three of swords + The Sun: Problems communicating with children. 

Three of swords + The World: Difficulty completing what you started. 

Three of swords + Four of wands: Gossip. Toxic community. 

Three of swords + Seven of wands: Unable to protect your boundaries properly. 

Three of swords + Eight of wands: Delays. 

Three of swords + Six of cups: A difficult childhood. 

Three of swords + Eight of cups: Surrendering to please others. 

Three of swords + Nine of cups: Disintegration due to lifestyle choices. 

Three of swords + Queen of cups: Dark feelings blocking abundance. 

Three of swords + Ace of pentacles: Separation. 

Three of swords + Three of pentacles: Lack in work performance. 

Three of swords + Five of pentacles: Lack of spirituality and friendship. Health problems. 

Three of swords + Seven of pentacles: Moving ahead before the time ripe. 

Three of swords + Eight of pentacles: Tedious work. 

Three of swords + Ten of pentacles: Pain with original family.  

Three of swords + Page of pentacles: Wasted talents. 

Three of swords + Ace of swords: Unable to think clearly. Wanting revenge. 

Three of swords + Five of swords: Someone is hurting you on purpose. 

Three of swords + Seven of swords: Lying. 

Three of swords + Page of swords: A talented person in the wrong field. 

Three of swords tarot card meanings summary

Someone asked me once why Three of swords tarot card has such a negative meaning in the tarot cards when three is a number for expansion, communication and humour? As you might know, some of the meanings in the cards derive from their numbers. Three is certainly not a negative number. Why is it then that Three of swords is about heartbreak and sorrow? With the Three of swords, we are entering into more negative influences of the swords. The swords in tarot are about conflict. Sometimes conflict is necessary. When combined with Three which is about communication it can denote breakdown in communication. Three of swords on a more positive note is about cutting to the heart of an issue to resolve it. On a more negative note, it is about hurt feelings and criticism. Most people would rather be ruined by flattery than saved by criticism. We all have to face criticism from time to time. It is how we handle it and learn/grow from it that matters. Three of swords tarot card meaning can denote that the seeker is learning not to take everything so personal.